Behind the Veil: Inside the Mind of Men “That Abuse” Women

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Domestic Violence is the leading cause of injury to women sending over 1 million every year to doctor’s offices or emergency rooms. This violence isn’t occurring from the hands of a stranger but from the hands of the man that has said I love you. In view of the recent domestic violence stories in the news I decided to write this article and take you inside the mind of men that abuse.

What Is Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence is when a partner physically, verbally, emotionally and sexually abuses their intimate partner by exerting power and control over them. Domestic violence occurs in all cultures, races, religions, classes and same sex relationships. We find that domestic violence is perpetrated by men and women, 95% of reported domestic violence cases are men abusing women and 5% of reported domestic violence cases are women abusing men.

National Stats

  1. Every 12 seconds a woman is abused by her intimate partner in the US.
  2. 37% of pregnant women are battered during pregnancy, including blows to the abdomen.
  3.  There are more animal shelters than there are shelters for victims of Domestic Violence in the US.

These numbers are staggering and remember this is only what is reported to the police, imagine how many more women are being abused but never report it to the police.

EMBARK ON FUN SHARED A STORY ON ORLANDO JR WALKER, READ IT HERE! WE ALSO HAVE A VIDEO HERE. WE ALSO RECEIVED A VIDEO ON A BEAUTIFUL MOTHER AND WOMAN WHO APPEARS TO BE AFRAID OF ORLANDO JR WALKER. HE DID THIS ON HER CHILD’S BIRTHDAY AND TOOK THE CHILD’S BIRTHDAY PARTY MONEY.  WE ARE VERY HAPPY SHE IS CURRENTLY SAFE, AND WE HOPE SHE PRESSES CHARGES ON HIM.

The woman here’s name is Analeysha Rivera.

According to her she was abused, punched in the eye and robed so Orlando JR Walker can feed others. As seen on his page. So I hope everyone enjoys their dinner and thanks Jr from taking from a child’s birthday for their plate. (sarcasm)

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Diagnosis of Abusers/Batterers

  1. Antisocial Personality Disorder, (deceitfulness, repeatedly lying, use of aliases or conning others for personal profit or pleasure.)
  2. Borderline Personality Disorder (a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships by alternating between extreme idealizations and devaluation.)
  3. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (Has a grandiose sense of self-importance.)

When we look at the profile/characteristics of batterers/abusers we can clearly see how this diagnosis will be found in this population. It’s important to be careful with this diagnosis because many batterers will look to use as an excuse for their behavior.

As we start to look at treatment for this population, I have to say that most of this population doesn’t come into treatment until the partner calls the police or they have been court ordered or the partner threatens to leave. (Note: Victims are at higher risk to be killed when they decide to leave their abusers; this is why some women stay).

If a man has a history as being abusive, a thief, and violent and has no care on what he has done by taking no responsibility…you need to immediately leave.

IT IS HER CHILD’S BIRTHDAY TODAY, SO SHE WAS ONLY ABLE TO TALK TO US TODAY BRIEFLY. HOWEVER TO BE ROBBED AND ABUSED ON YOUR CHILD’S BIRTHDAY IS CRUEL, HEARTBREAKING AND I HOPE HE IS PUNISHED BY THE LAW FOR HIS CRIME.

Analeysa stated, “Yes I’m afraid and I can’t call the cops now I’m with my son and it’s his birthday he doesn’t need to see that.” We are unsure how we can help but we hope she is safe until she can report it to the police.

Victims of Domestic Violence call National DV Hotline: 1-800-799- (SAFE) 7233

You can also call the Lewis house if you live in Minnesota, 651.452.7288

Domestic violence is never ok, and you are not to blame he is. If you are abused the time to stand up for yourself is now, report it, tell as many people as you can. Because being silent could kill you.

I hope friends and family that read this help support Analeysa in her sons birthday today! If someone Robs you and leaves you with nothing you will need some financial help to get back on your feet.

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